After the Silence — What We Lost, What We Can Save
When the world went quiet, it wasn’t the traffic we missed most. It was the soft chorus of dining rooms: glass to glass, plate to plate, story to story.
When the World Went Quiet
In 2020, dining together paused—first by decree, then by uncertainty. Across Europe, Asia, and the Americas, iconic rooms dimmed not from lack of love, but from a suddenly impossible math: fixed rents against vanishing covers; supply wobbling while demand came in waves; staff scattered to safer shores. Some never found their way back. In London alone, the closure ledgers read like a cultural index of the city’s appetite, as Eater London documented month after month of losses through 2020–2021.
These shutterings weren’t just economic. They broke rituals: birthdays in glowing corners; proposals wrapped in napkins; the quiet, daily miracle of a hot dish carried from a line cook’s hands to ours.
The Aftertaste in America
The U.S. felt the shock in every time zone. New York’s prohibition-era legend 21 Club—a room that taught generations how a dining room could feel—went dark after 90 years, the owners citing the long, uncertain road to recovery. In New Orleans, K-Paul’s Louisiana Kitchen, Paul Prudhomme’s joyful thunderclap of Cajun cooking, closed for good—an institution felled by a pandemic that punished the very intimacy restaurants exist to create. In Los Angeles, Trois Mec, Ludo Lefebvre’s Michelin-starred miniature of wonder, found that a tasting menu built for closeness couldn’t survive distancing.
The wider industry numbers tell the same story: by late 2020, trade groups estimated more than 100,000 U.S. restaurants closed long-term or permanently, and operators warned that “profit doesn’t exist anymore” amid labor, inflation, and supply-chain pressure. Even as reopening accelerated, staffing lagged—millions of jobs had vanished, and operators struggled to rehire at pre-pandemic levels.
Aloha After Hours
In Hawaiʻi—the rare place where hospitality is a cultural value, not a department—loss cut deeper. Alan Wong’s Honolulu closed after 25 years, a bookend on an era that taught the world how Hawaiʻi Regional Cuisine could travel. Chef Mavro (reborn as “M”) ultimately went quiet as well. These weren’t just restaurants; they were teachers.
When Alan Wong’s Restaurant, one of Hawai‘i’s most celebrated fine-dining institutions, closed its doors in 2020, it marked the end of an era. In an interview with HONOLULU Magazine (July 12, 2021), Wong shared the emotional weight of that decision:
“The thought of closing the restaurant was absolutely horrible. … I went through every range of emotion you can imagine.”
— Alan Wong, HONOLULU Magazine
He described the process of cleaning out decades of memories — “awards, recognitions, pictures, gifts…” — and the resolve to finish honorably:
“One of the most important things to me was making sure we closed the right way. … Every member of the staff received their last paychecks … all of our vendors got paid in full.”
That level of integrity reflected the same spirit that defined his cuisine — deep respect for ingredients, people, and place. As Wong put it, “We were more than just a restaurant. We touched many parts of our community.”.
The story still resonates across Honolulu. For many, it symbolized both the fragility and grace of Hawai‘i’s culinary community — and what it means to close with aloha. Yet some stories, like flavors, have a way of returning to the table when the time is right.
Policy shaped behavior, too. In mid-2020, Oʻahu’s rules required bars and restaurants to stop serving alcohol at 10 p.m.—a change that rewired late-night habits and, for many rooms built on the second seating, erased essential revenue. Even after restrictions eased, the culture of “early” stuck; today it’s still rare to find a kitchen or bar going strong past 10 or 11.
Most recently, Nami Kaze—a bright spark at Pier 38—announced it wouldn’t renew its lease. Not because the dining room was empty; it wasn’t. But because finding the right hands and hearts—the people who choose this work as a calling—has become its own kind of scarcity. Rising costs and operational strain didn’t help.
Why This Hurts (and What’s Really Going On)
The problems are layered:
The economics got tighter. Rents didn’t blink while revenue did. Food and disposables inflated; fry oil and protein volatility turned menu pricing into guesswork. Delivery platforms took deep cuts from “lifeline” sales.
Labor is the new bottleneck. Many veterans left; newcomers want balance the industry rarely offered. Immigration slowdowns removed a crucial talent pipeline. Even in 2025, staffing remains below 2019 levels for many operators.
Behavior changed. Remote work reduced downtown lunches. Earlier curfews and pandemic habits normalized early dining—and normalized going home. In tourist economies, uneven travel recovery made forecasting a coin flip.
Insurance and risk rose. Business interruption claims rarely paid; one bad week (sickness, storms, supply misses) can still topple a slim-margin room.
And yet—kitchens are nothing if not inventive. Some pivoted to tasting menus with fewer seats and a higher check average; some leaned into fast-casual and ghost kitchens; others (like Eleven Madison Park in New York) reimagined their identity altogether to meet a changed world.
Will the Next Generation Save Restaurants?
It’s tempting to cast Millennials and Gen Z as the nail in the coffin. That’s inaccurate—and unfair. They’re the ones who pushed for health care, living wages, humane hours, and safer kitchens. The real question isn’t whether young cooks and servers will “toughen up”; it’s whether ownership, policy, and diners will help build a model that’s worth joining.
What must happen:
Real margins, not miracles. Menus must price the true cost of craft. A higher check is an honest contract, not a betrayal. (Trade groups estimate more than 110,000 long-term closures by late 2020; we can’t price like it’s 2019. )
Professionalized schedules. Four-day weeks, cross-training, and smart prep calendars keep people in the craft. (The staffing data trendlines remain below pre-pandemic levels; retention is the new revenue.)
Policy that matches reality. Outdoor dining allowances, sensible takeout alcohol rules, and disaster relief designed for the way restaurants actually operate can turn fragility into resilience.
What Diners Can Do (Starting Tonight)
We say we love restaurants. Here’s how we prove it:
Dine with grace. If there’s a corkage fee, accept it—and buy a bottle, too. Those margins keep the lights on.
Tip well; be kind. Hospitality is emotional labor. Your patience is part of the meal.
Say yes to the weekday. Friday is full. Tuesday is salvation.
Stop the “gotcha.” If a price changed or a favorite dish is 86’d, trust the kitchen’s math; ask your server what they’re proud of tonight.
Buy gift cards, attend pop-ups, book the second seating. Your presence is a vote.
Remember who showed up. When a school needs funds or a community needs comfort, restaurants are first to donate. Be first to support them back.
Every city lost a piece of its soul during the pandemic. Framing Hawaiʻi’s story within that global ache gives it reach beyond the islands. It’s not “local news”—it’s a meditation on impermanence, resilience, and how food helps us remember.
And sometimes, when the lights flicker back on, a familiar name may find its way home once again—perhaps even at Hoku’s, come January 2026. See you soon Chef Alan!
Until then: let’s fill the seats, honor the craft, and keep the lights on for whoever’s next.
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